Showing posts with label Writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Writing. Show all posts
Tuesday, April 30, 2019
A Different Way of Looking at Creativity
I've noticed that as the trend in publishing leans more and more towards speed, productivity, marketing, sales, bestseller lists, and social media followers, authors seem to be more anxious.
Less satisfied with their writing careers.
Constantly comparing themselves to others and finding a perceived failure.
Unhappy.
Is there an alternative? Sure. Here's another way to approach writing, or really any creative project. A more mindful way that may offer less stress for those folks who are struggling with the publishing industry right now.
One of the benefits of this type of mindful approach is that it "fills the well" not only for mental well-being and happiness, but also the well of creative inspiration.
I've noticed the term "muse" is mocked these days.
I don't mock it.
I like it.
There is nothing wrong with looking for inspiration.
There is nothing wrong with finding the spark that ignites your creativity.
I hear this a lot..."How do you get your story ideas? I am running out of ideas."
I honestly have so many ideas that I couldn't possibly write all the books I want to in this lifetime.
How do I get so many ideas?
Fill the well.
What does this mean?
If you isolate yourself and focus only on word counts and publication dates, you are shutting yourself off to myriad experiences that shape who you are and the quality of your life.
The "richer" your experiences, the more you have to say, write about, create. This is true of all art: photography, painting, film, sculpture, novels, poetry, etc.
Let's break this down into four components...
1. Explore
2. Engage
3. Absorb
4. Create
#1 is EXPLORE. This can include "active" experiences like travel, taking classes, trying new sports and activities. You can do these things alone or with friends.
Examples: Big trips like Iceland and Europe, small trips like Audubon parks or a local zoo. Classes could include a cooking class for Italian food, glass-blowing, or even a writing class for a new genre. How about trying karate or yoga? Maybe wine-tasting, wine-making, wines of the world. (You can't go wrong with wine!)
Exploring can also be "non-active" like reading/research/education. Go to the library, do research at a museum, teach yourself a new language or a bit of history.
You never know what new experience will make your brain hum with story ideas.
#2 is ENGAGE. This is all about interacting with other people and your environment. Instead of isolating yourself, reach out. Join communities. Learn from others. Make friends with people outside your normal friend group.
Get uncomfortable. Yes, UNcomfortable. Why? Because hanging out with the same group of people is safe, but sometimes stifling. Push yourself to engage with new folks.
Engage with your environment, too. Touch, smell, taste, explore. Look at the world around you. Really look, investigate. All of these sights and sounds are stimulating. They will stimulate new ideas for your writing, your art, and most importantly, for your happiness.
#3 is ABSORB. What does this mean? Take the time to think about your new experiences, conversations with people, travel adventures. Keep a journal. What things did you like, what things did you dislike?
Spend time contemplating what is going on in the world around you. Take photos, jot down impressions.
Pretty soon dialogue will start popping into your head. Characters. Stories.
Let your mind drift and absorb all the new things going on in your life.
#4 is CREATE. After you explore, engage, and absorb, you are ready to create.
Anything.
Everything.
Knit. Garden. Make jewelry. Take photos. Paint. Write. Cook.
Once you fill the well, your muse will kick in. You'll see things in a new way, maybe have that necessary break-through with your current work-in-progress.
Maybe come up with a totally new idea that never occurred to you.
I know people who think "doing non-writing things" is wasting time. They are either "writing" or "wasting time."
How can you write effectively, to the very best of your ability, if you shut yourself off to life?
Your writing will shine when you take the time to live a little bit. Or a lot a bit.
Will you make a million dollars or be number one on a bestseller list?
I don't know. Maybe. Maybe not.
But I do know that your anxiety will decrease, your happiness will expand, and your writing will improve.
It's not a bad goal.
Signing off,
Nina
Labels:
Creativity,
Mindfulness,
Writing
Thursday, March 28, 2019
Jumping From Hearts to Horror
After many years of writing romance, I am now in the midst of creating a horror novella.
Is this a weird switch?
It might seem that way. Jumping from hearts and happy-ever-afters to horrifying creatures, death, and destruction, might make some folks scratch their heads and say, "What the hell?"
But for me, it's not that odd. I have always enjoyed a weird--dare I say quirky--bunch of interests.
Botany, horror movies, puppies, science, art, comedy, nature, sci-fi, and the list goes on. Some of the things are cute and cuddly, and some of the things involve exploding zombie heads.
You get my drift.
My love affair with horror has been going on since childhood. Started with JAWS and Stephen King, and it just kept growing. I especially love sci-fi-horror (ALIENS is a favorite) and horror/comedy (think SHAUN OF THE DEAD).
Anyhow, I am finding the switch from Hearts to Horror wonderfully challenging as a writer.
Stuff you need to think about with romance...
1. Main purpose is creating a satisfying romance/love story. May include sex or not.
2. Character-driven stories are best. Readers will forgive a story that really has no plot if the characters are fabulous, but they will not forgive a plot-driven novel with flat/underdeveloped characters. Characters make the romance.
3. The relationship between hero/heroine drives the book. Pulling them apart, pushing them back together. This guides the story.
4. Book must end with satisfying resolution to relationship conflict, and a HEA (happy ever after). Happy ending, for those of you not up on the romance lingo.
5. Characters need to be likable or at least redeemable by the end.
Different things to accomplish with a horror story...
1. Book can be character-driven or plot-driven, or some combination of both. I personally believe creating very strong, well-developed characters strengthens your story no matter what genre you are writing.
2. Need some mystery, unknown, question mark. In other words, WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE?
3. Suspense is critical. Author has to build suspense over the course of the book. Can be a slow build-up, or come in fits-and-starts. Whatever. Must be there.
4. Horror is critical. Can be subtle, or bash-you-over-the-head shocking.
5. Ending does not necessarily need a well-defined resolution. Could be vague, open-ended. Could be all wrapped up. Might be shocking. No matter what, the novel still needs to be engaging and satisfying as a horror story.
My favorite part of switching from romance to horror, as I discussed in this blog post, is the freedom to create warty characters. They don't need to be perfect. They can be cruel and vindictive and really awful people. And let's face it, after years of creating "nice guys" it's pretty fun to make a warty character pop off the page.
I have always loved creating an alternate, paranormal universe (see my Klaus Brothers Series). It's so much fun to stretch your imagination and creativity with other worlds. With horror, I can continue to do this, just with more gruesome outcomes. *insert evil laugh*
Will I ever write love stories again? Sure. I have a lot of up-coming options on my current "writing menu" including YA fantasy, paranormal fiction, love stories, etc.
But for now I am digging into a bit of the macabre. Maybe it's a better fit for my current emotional state? Or the state of the world? Or maybe I just love Halloween? Whatever the reason, LITTLE SHADOW MAN is floating my horror boat right now.
For a sneak peek of LITTLE SHADOW MAN, check out this post.
Happy and Horrible Writing to all!
Nina
Thursday, February 21, 2019
From the Writing Cave: Observations About Genre Limitations
Personal observation for the week...
What is the most liberating part of switching from the romance genre to other types of fiction?
(At the moment, I'm working on horror, paranormal fiction, and YA fiction).
Creating truly flawed characters, not heroes.
If you ask a reader or author of romance what is the most important rule--unbreakable, sacred--they will most likely answer...
HAPPY ENDINGS!
As a writer of romance, I never found the happy ending to be a limitation. I generally gravitate to what I like to call "optimistic fiction" whether it's romance or not.
The insistence of a happy ending puts limits on plot.
But to be honest, my struggles with the romance genre had to do with CHARACTER not PLOT.
When the characters are defined as "HERO" and "HEROINE" there are expectations that squeeze them into a box.
When you try to break out of that box--Tom in APPLES SHOULD BE RED is 62, a chain-smoker, borderline alcoholic, coarse with language and manners, rude, judgmental--there might be push-back.
I discovered something important with that book.
There is a difference between...
1. CHARACTER WITH HEROIC QUALITIES
2. HERO
That's not to say that all heroes in romance are the same. Sure, plenty of them have gorgeous physiques, but there are others with flaws who are less than perfect. Likewise, not all romance heroes are good guys, but all of them have a character arc that shows growth and courage over the course of the book.
I have seen readers complain that heroes/heroines in romance were not "likable." If you are not rooting for the H/h to get together and have a happy ending, a romance fails.
What happens when you get to write a "character" instead of a "hero?"
You gain the freedom to create a real person who may be extremely unlikable. Likability is not a prerequisite for all fiction, as we know.
I'm working on a horror novel right now.
Not gonna lie. The freedom to create a truly flawed character--with darkness, jealousy, cruelty--is absolutely delicious.
Of course, "real" characters may also exhibit heroic elements and some sort of growth arc over the course of the novel.
But knocking the character off that romance pedestal is a freakin' breath of fresh air.
This isn't meant as a criticism of the romance hero. In fact, I have issues with "dark" romance where the "hero" is someone who kidnaps, tortures, and rapes the "heroine." IMO, not heroic behavior.
I also have issues with cheating in romance. I don't want my romance hero to cheat on his partner. But I'm totally fine with that in a mystery, thriller, lit fiction.
My point is that creatively speaking, the ability to create a character vs. a hero opens up a whole new world for a writer.
It's fun.
And creepy (horror novel!)...
And not knowing if the character has good/heroic qualities until the bitter end adds a nice element of suspense that we don't get to play with in the romance genre.
So...yeah. I'm enjoying this.
For a sneak peek of LITTLE SHADOW MAN, here's a snippet I posted.
Writer Friends: What is your opinion about this? Do you enjoy creating heroes and that corresponding character arc? Do you like creating unlikable characters with or without redemption?
What's the most fun, challenging, interesting approach for you as a writer?
Let's chat!
All my best,
Nina/Penny
Labels:
characters,
genre fiction,
heroes,
horror,
romance,
Writing
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Creating Treasure
I love it when something changes my perspective on a certain topic.
Looking at things from a different point of view is a way to learn, grow, and change.
Recently, I had two separate events in my life that opened up my eyes about writing and publishing.
One was meeting a woman who wrote her memoir.
The other was expanding my "friends" on social media to include authors of nonfiction, poetry, kiddy lit, mysteries, thrillers, women's fiction, horror, literary fiction, and more.
After fifteen years of being totally immersed in genre fiction and the current indie publishing model--write fast, crank out a book every three months, follow trends, write to market, write a series, etc--it was refreshing to get a different point of view about the publishing world.
There are myriad approaches to writing and models for publishing.
Some folks write ONE book in their lifetime.
ONE.
Just one.
Crazy?
I met a lovely woman at a book-signing who was selling her memoir. She was bubbling over with enthusiasm about her book. She'd scheduled talks at libraries, bookstores, and for groups that were appropriate for her topic.
When I asked what she was currently working on, she answered, "No other books. This is it for me. My story."
I was flabbergasted.
No other books?
She had written her story. It was her own personal literary treasure.
It didn't lose value after three months. It didn't lose relevancy. She wasn't worried about cranking out a book every ninety days, and fretting that readers would forget about her.
Her book had a unique title and cover and story because it was her personal treasure.
It wasn't disposable. It was written to have long-term value. To be durable, special.
Some were focused on language, emotion. Their goals included being published in literary magazines and winning awards.
Some reached out to people with shared interests and concerns about the world around them.
Some were focused on bestseller lists and marketing plans.
I noticed a difference in the way the books were discussed and treated.
Some had longevity, timelessness.
Some seemed generic, with similar covers, titles, and blurbs.
I discovered that I LOVE poets. They respect language. They respect each other. They're all about authenticity.
I met people who promoted their books in a professional, non-aggressive way. And others who don't know that messaging a "new" friend with a spam promo is off-putting.
I came to this conclusion. There is room for everyone...
...The folks who focus on productivity and speed and commercial success.
...The folks who choose to create one treasure in their lifetime.
...Writers who concentrate on language and quality and recognition for that.
...People who teach and connect.
...And many more. An infinite number of possibilities.
Most importantly, any kind of book can have longevity and durability.
Think about a favorite dog-eared cookbook.
Non-fiction, genre fiction, literary fiction.
Any kind of book can be timeless treasure with a long shelf-life.
That's a good goal for all writers, of all types. To create treasure for our readers.
Off to write,
Penny/Nina
Labels:
fiction,
publishing,
Writing
Friday, January 11, 2019
10th Year Book Anniversary: Life Lessons
Ten years ago, in 2009, my first book was published.
It was a quirky take on the legend of Santa Claus, complete with drunken elves, five rambunctious brothers, and romance under the Christmas tree. It had won a couple of awards, and was picked up by a small publisher who offered holiday options.
Here I am, 10 years later. A decade has passed. How did that even happen?
I have now published one children's book, all five installments of the Klaus Brothers Series, an award-nominated short story with "seasoned" characters in their sixties, a rated G snowbound-in-a-cabin quickie, a novella about a treehouse designer, and an award-winning women's fiction about a reality cooking show.
In the meantime, I survived a heart attack, raised two kids, a husband, and a wiener dog.
I've been in three critique groups, attended countless conferences, offered workshops from Florida to Maine, co-hosted an indie publishing symposium, won a bunch of awards, sold a bunch of books, accumulated reviews--the good, the bad, and the ugly--mentored other authors, befriended many readers, ran a review site, and learned more about the publishing industry than I really ever wanted to know. I even had a film company express interest in one of my books. This amounted to nothing, but it added a bit of excitement to my author journey.
Yesterday, I spent some time thinking about what lessons I've learned over the last decade. Yes, I've learned a lot of lessons.
But when you really get right down to it, I can sum up a decade of learning into two points...
1. Focus on the writing.
2. True friendships are the golden nugget.
The Writing: I started my writing journey as an eight-year-old, lugging around a dingy white notebook with my first story scribbled in extremely feminine cursive.
I was eight. I didn't know anything about marketing trends, agents, or conferences.
All I knew was that story I could not stop thinking about was growing and expanding and becoming something exciting. I had discovered the "thrill" that a writer experiences with the birth of a novel.
And, after a decade of publishing bullshit, I now know that the "thrill" is still the most important thing.
Really, the only thing.
It's true. I see a lot of authors get caught up in the other stuff--dollar signs in their eyes, and awards season, and so bent out of shape when they get a bit of criticism. But the truth is, if you have the heart and soul of a writer, that "thrill" is the reason you're doing this.
As it should be.
True Friendships: Doesn't matter who or what you are. Teacher, social worker, stay-at-home mom. Scientist, author, Hollywood actor.
Pretty soon you figure out those true, loyal friends are the golden nuggets of your life.
They deserve your time and energy and love. And you learn to push the backstabbers, who are sometimes dressed in sheep's clothing, off the proverbial cliff.
Those true friends are with you every step of the way, whether you're rich or poor or depressed or useful. Long after you write your last book, you'll be laughing together at the nursing home and listening to 1980s Madonna songs.
Hold on tight to those people.
✯✯✯
That's it.
Those are the lessons.
I expect those same two lessons will still be appropriate years from now.
I find it interesting that over the last twenty years of writing, I've come full circle. Started as an enthusiastic writer, became fully immersed in the publishing world, and then found my way back to this basic place where writing is the focus.
It's a good place to be.
Love and good wishes to all the storytellers out there,
Nina/Penny
Saturday, December 29, 2018
Confessions of a Quirky Author
This is the time of year when we reflect upon the past twelve months and think...what just happened?
Did I accomplish the things I wanted to? Did I succeed, fail, let myself down, surprise myself?
Yes to all these things.
This is also the time of year when we think ahead to the next twelve months. A fresh new start! What will I accomplish? What will be my successes? What will be my failures?
Many things.
True confession time: I have had the SAME TWO THINGS ON MY LIST FOR 3 YEARS.
Didn't get them done in 2016, didn't get them done in 2017, didn't get them done in 2018.
And so, in an extremely unfortunate and discouraging turn of events, these SAME TWO THINGS are now on the list for 2019.
These 2 things:
1. Get rid of diabetes.
2. Finish BLUE.
They say that when you are truly ready for change, the change will happen.
Re: diabetes. I started to lose weight (15 pounds), but my A1C hardly budged. I got very discouraged.
I know how to diet. I know how to exercise. I know what I need to do to make this happen. AM I READY FOR CHANGE?
Am I ready? Yes, I am.
Determined. Ready. THIS WILL NOT BE ON MY LIST FOR 2020!
In 2020, I will not have diabetes.
Re: BLUE. After years of writing romance, I switched to a new genre and a new format. This book has changed so many times, I can barely keep up with it. But I know in my heart, this is the best thing I've ever written. Also, the most challenging and the most difficult.
The writing is always easy for me. But having so many choices about my characters, the story--and how to get there--is tough with this one.
I need to buckle down, choose a central theme, and write. Write, write, write, and find the story in those words.
FINISH BLUE WILL NOT BE ON MY LIST FOR 2020.
By 2020, BLUE will be finished.
Easy days: When the number on the scale is down, when the words flow.
These are the days it's easy to stick with the goals.
Hard days: When the number on the scale is up, when the book feels like a hot mess.
These are the days you have to push through to get to the other side.
One thing I know for sure about 2019...there will be easy days and hard days.
I have to get through all of them to achieve my goals.
My goal for 2019:
TO HAVE A BRAND NEW SET OF GOALS FOR 2020
That's my goal. To wrap up these things that are hard, challenging, life-changing.
I've pushed a little bit, they've pushed back. Forward and back.
This year I will push back all the way.
So, that's sort of a quirky goal for 2019. To have a new set of goals for 2020.
But there you go.
To everyone who is planning to push back all the way...
WE GOT THIS!
xoxoxo
Neen
Monday, September 24, 2018
The Great Experiment
The Great Experiment
I would like to invite you along for the ride as I attempt my "Great Experiment!"
What is "The Great Experiment?"
Well, first a little background for those of you who don't know me.
What is "The Great Experiment?"
Well, first a little background for those of you who don't know me.
The most important things to me as an author are writing unique, one-of-a-kind fiction--the quirkier the better--and trying new things creatively. I like to set up writing challenges for myself as I embark on each new project.
They are craft-related goals.
I'll try writing a different genre, experimenting with a new format, change up POVs, blend storylines in a novel. I try to do something totally different creatively and push myself as a writer.
Example: A few years ago, I decided to write a romance with characters in their late 50s/early 60s--not common at that time, and in fact the characters were considered way too old and not appropriate for romance. That was a challenge I couldn't pass up. I also made the couple fairly unlikable characters, and attempted a short-format as an added test. Could I make readers root for this couple by the end of the book? Believe their love story? And accomplish that with 21,000-words?
Could I do it?
I really had no idea, but the challenge was worth the risk and fun to boot.
I really had no idea, but the challenge was worth the risk and fun to boot.
Shockingly, APPLES SHOULD BE RED did extremely well. It's not for everyone, but the unexpected aspect got it attention and it received many excellent reviews, awards, even a potential film deal, etc.
That was an experiment with a happy ending. (In the matter of complete transparency, I've attempted many projects that failed and have ended up in the trash bin. As one does).
My outside-the-box thinking also applies to marketing/promotion. I am not interested in "playing the game" as far as typical promotion/marketing/branding. Believe me, as an introvert extraordinaire, if I could reinvigorate the "Hermit Model for Authors"--living alone in a shack in the woods--I would be all over that.
As I came to terms with these truths about my own personality, I realized that the "stuff authors should do"--at least for genre fiction--is not a good fit for me. Most of these things make me uncomfortable.
My outside-the-box thinking also applies to marketing/promotion. I am not interested in "playing the game" as far as typical promotion/marketing/branding. Believe me, as an introvert extraordinaire, if I could reinvigorate the "Hermit Model for Authors"--living alone in a shack in the woods--I would be all over that.
As I came to terms with these truths about my own personality, I realized that the "stuff authors should do"--at least for genre fiction--is not a good fit for me. Most of these things make me uncomfortable.
The list includes aggressive promotion, writing-to-market, joining secret author groups that offer the "holy grail" (HOW TO MAKE A BESTSELLER LIST), attending huge reader events, and so on.
I decided I wanted to make a new publishing model for myself that focused on personal connections with other authors and readers, in smaller, more intimate groups. Not based on the need to sell/make money, but for authentic friendships to form. I also wanted to make connections with a more eclectic group of people, including scientists, artists, musicians. Creative and curious people in all different types of professions/with various interests.
I know, this strategy is sucky if you're trying to make tons of money. But if you're just trying to be happy and creatively fulfilled--which are my personal goals--it's a good plan.
I decided I wanted to make a new publishing model for myself that focused on personal connections with other authors and readers, in smaller, more intimate groups. Not based on the need to sell/make money, but for authentic friendships to form. I also wanted to make connections with a more eclectic group of people, including scientists, artists, musicians. Creative and curious people in all different types of professions/with various interests.
I know, this strategy is sucky if you're trying to make tons of money. But if you're just trying to be happy and creatively fulfilled--which are my personal goals--it's a good plan.
What I'm wondering now is this...if you don't "play the game" and follow these lists, if you try something totally outside-of-the-box, can you still find an audience and a modicum of success?
Here is my overall game plan for this publishing experiment...
1. Minimal social media accounts.
2. No street team.
3. Speaking engagements: yes (especially small groups...super fun for me). Book readings: Yes (that's my favorite). Huge reader events: No.
4. Focus on unique fiction, original material.
5. Focus on stand-alone books.
6. No writing groups/loops focused on marketing/promotion.
7. "Small Batch Whiskey" model for sales/branding. High quality, small batch, unique one-of-a-kind product, and focus on connecting with small groups not massive followings.
8. Home-grown website.
9. Authentic branding.
10. No author/reader groups.
Current goals...
1. Finish BLUE, which is so far out of the box it probably needs a new galaxy.
2. Upon completion of book...Query agents/publishers. I had a small publisher when I first started writing, then branched into self-publishing. I think this book would do well with a more traditional approach. Worth a try, and if not, I can self-pub it.
3. I have a very unique plan for promotion, which I'll discuss as it happens.
4. Continue to do things that make me happy...give workshops about self-care for authors, craft, etc. Travel. Meet new people.
5. FLEXIBILITY in terms of work/life balance. If my family needs me, they come first.
1. Finish BLUE, which is so far out of the box it probably needs a new galaxy.
2. Upon completion of book...Query agents/publishers. I had a small publisher when I first started writing, then branched into self-publishing. I think this book would do well with a more traditional approach. Worth a try, and if not, I can self-pub it.
3. I have a very unique plan for promotion, which I'll discuss as it happens.
4. Continue to do things that make me happy...give workshops about self-care for authors, craft, etc. Travel. Meet new people.
5. FLEXIBILITY in terms of work/life balance. If my family needs me, they come first.
So, this is the experiment. I made up my own rules of engagement. Will this work?
I have no freakin' idea, but it's worth a try.
For those of you playing at home, you can follow me on this blog/website for updates. I'll try to post on Mondays with an update for the week. I also have wonderful interactions on Facebook, pretty much the last-man-standing for my social media accounts. Friend me there if you're so inclined.
I would love to hear about your goals, achievements, and progress. Join me here to share. Are you creating a tailor-made plan for you? Are you following a more traditional path on your writing/publication journey? Let's chat.
Share your weekly goals and let us know how you're doing, what's working/not working. WHAT'S YOUR EXPERIMENT?
Thanks for following along...
Nina
P.S. First Week of Updates
1. Status of BLUE: at approximately 10,500 words
2. Work on edits for existing sections, add new section switching POV from boy to girl.
3. For folks interested in a sneak peek at BLUE, here's a link.
4. Hygge goal for the week: Make miniature terrariums with ferns/moss donated by neighbor.
GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE WITH CREATIVE GOALS, PROJECTS, AND LIFE! xoxoxoxo
I have no freakin' idea, but it's worth a try.
For those of you playing at home, you can follow me on this blog/website for updates. I'll try to post on Mondays with an update for the week. I also have wonderful interactions on Facebook, pretty much the last-man-standing for my social media accounts. Friend me there if you're so inclined.
I would love to hear about your goals, achievements, and progress. Join me here to share. Are you creating a tailor-made plan for you? Are you following a more traditional path on your writing/publication journey? Let's chat.
Share your weekly goals and let us know how you're doing, what's working/not working. WHAT'S YOUR EXPERIMENT?
Thanks for following along...
Nina
P.S. First Week of Updates
1. Status of BLUE: at approximately 10,500 words
2. Work on edits for existing sections, add new section switching POV from boy to girl.
3. For folks interested in a sneak peek at BLUE, here's a link.
4. Hygge goal for the week: Make miniature terrariums with ferns/moss donated by neighbor.
GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE WITH CREATIVE GOALS, PROJECTS, AND LIFE! xoxoxoxo
Saturday, September 15, 2018
Overcoming Professional Jealousy
Here's a topic that is uncomfortable and sometimes embarrassing and can be utterly debilitating.
It's also something that is widely prevalent in publishing although seldom spoken about.
Unless you are living the existence of a "hermit" writer--perhaps living in a shack in the woods with no Internet service, maybe a small herb garden, and perhaps a couple of wiener dogs...
(Sorry, I got side-tracked by my fantasy life!)
...you are aware of other authors.
In fact, once you get going with marketing/promotion you realize that comparing yourself to others is actually part of the process.
Who are your "comps?"
That's how publishing companies market you. They compare you to similar authors and market you accordingly.
The downside of this is that you are in danger of having your ego crushed when you discover that similar authors sell more/have better reviews/win awards/[FILL IN THE BLANK ABOUT ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL BADLY ABOUT YOURSELF].
This is professional jealousy.
This can affect your motivation to write.
Or even to continue with this career.
This is especially an issue in romance publishing where everyone is writing the same themes/tropes, copying each other, jumping on trends. Writing "unique" fiction is not the end-game, which was explained to me in condescending fashion by an agent many years ago.
It's all about the comps.
So, what to do?
First of all, don't feel guilty. It's natural to compare yourself to others, and it's normal to sometimes feel envious of other peoples' success.
But this is the thing you have to remember...
Other people may write the same genre, or have similar interests/branding/series, etc., but no one else can write your book but you.
That's what you have.
YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN WRITE YOUR BOOK.
THE ONLY ONE.
That's it. That's what you own. Your story. Other authors might write similar things, even the exact same topic, but only YOU can write YOUR story.
No one else is you. Want to be yourself, not others. Want to write YOUR stories, not someone else's.
Your story is your power. Don't give it up.
Wise words from an old hermit writer...
xoxoxo
Nina
Wednesday, September 12, 2018
New Ruts in the Road
I realized something this summer.
Writing romance is a default setting for me.
What does this mean?
It means that it has become a habit. When I start writing, I easily slip into alternating hero POV/heroine POV, banter/dialogue, focusing on their relationship. Creating setting as texture. The writing flows easily. It's second nature, uncomplicated, effortless.
The writing has always been the easy part for me.
It's the thinking/planning that's tough.
Writing romance is painless. I've been doing it for twenty years, and so yes...it's easy. It's habit. It's my default setting.
I spent months and months working on my current WIP--which is NOT romance--and it became a hellacious struggle.
I couldn't figure out why. Writing the words is usually not such a challenge. But the structure for this book is different, the themes are more subtle. I have a lot more decisions to make. Those decisions were taken out of my hands when I wrote romance.
This summer when I attempted to work on a romance story...voilĆ ! 4000 words popped right out without a sweat.
Forming a 20-year habit means that I have brain pathways that have become extremely ingrained. They are ruts in the road.
It's tough to make a new path when ruts are already there.
It's also tough to figure out a new writing process when one is already in place.
I'm 52-years-old. I'm forcing myself to make new pathways. I'm forcing myself to find a new process. I'm working on a totally different type of fiction, and there is no default setting for this.
It's all new.
Some days I think about how easy it would be to just chuck this project and go back to romance.
Pop out that word count without batting an eyelash.
But this challenge is good for me as a writer. It's also good for my brain.
I am forcing myself to make new ruts in the road, bushwhacking a new path.
I can do it. But damn, it's hard.
Using this Stephen King quote as inspiration right now...
In the meantime, I did a little re-write for Henry Miller's Daily Program and 11 Commandments. I adjusted it for a mom with kids.
Here's my personal take on his approach...
Henry Miller Daily Program
Mornings:
Henry Miller: If groggy, type notes and allocate. If in fine fettle, write.
Me: Get daughter up and drive her to bus stop.
Get organized for the day: make bed, clean kitchen, start laundry, etc.
Walk. Think about work-in-progress while walking. Make plans for next section. BRAIN-STORM! Walk Time = Brainstorm Time.
Write FRESH WORDS. Aim for 1-2 hours of fresh writing. (This is my best time of day for brain to work creatively).
Afternoon:
Henry Miller: Work on section at hand, no intrusions, no diversions. Write to finish one section at a time, for good and all.
What I like about HM's approach...I also like finishing one section at a time before I move on. I need that part settled and fairly well-edited before I can move on to the next section.
However, my brain is not always up for FRESH WORDS in the afternoon...
Me: Do low-brain-capacity errands/chores. Go to post office, pay bills, fold laundry, shop/prep/cook dinner.
For writing: Re-read morning section, do edits, take notes. Possibly work on alternate WIP if I need a creative bump.
MAKE PLAN FOR NEXT DAY WRITING. Think of next scene, section. Do edits/clean up writing. Take notes for next section.
Pick up daughter at bus stop.
Evenings:
Henry Miller: See friends, read, explore, bicycle. Write if you're in the mood. Paint, make notes, corrections.
His extra note: Make time to visit museums, bike rides, sketch, library once a week for research, CUT OUT MOVIES. (hee hee! I think movie-watching was his weakness)
What I like about this: I think it's CRUCIAL to have a life and do things that spur on creativity. Like seeing people, enjoying art/engaging in other creative outlets, travel, trying new things. YES TO ALL OF THIS!
Me: Evening is for family, down-time.
Have dinner, finish household chores. Read, walk again. Walk dog if she's willing. Socialize with friends. Sleep early if possible.
Henry Miller 11 Commandments
1. HM: Work on one thing at a time until it's finished.
Me: I've discovered that working on a secondary WIP in the afternoon is a good break/reinvigorates my creative well.
2. HM: Don't start a new book.
Me: Agree. I am trying to focus on primary WIP, and back-up project only as needed.
3. HM: Don't be nervous. Work calmly, joyously, recklessly on whatever is in hand.
Me: I LOVE EVERY BIT OF THIS ADVICE. THE BEST!
4. HM: Work on program, not according to mood. Stop at appointed time.
Me: Disagree with this. If you have a family, it's almost impossible. Be flexible. If family needs/health needs crop up, that's okay. If you're exhausted, the words aren't flowing, that's okay. Do other things. If the words are flowing, keep going.
5. HM: When you can't create, you can work.
Me: Excellent advice. Yes. You can still take notes, do research, work on promo, etc.
6. HM: Cement a little every day, rather than adding new fertilizers.
Me: I like this. Tighten up your manuscript/edit as you go along instead of adding tons of new raw words. I like this a lot because it means your manuscript is in fairly decent shape at the end instead of needing tons of edits/revisions.
7. HM: Keep human. See people, go places, drink if you feel like it.
Me: YES YES YES. Drink beer on weekends.
8. HM: Don't be a draught-horse. Work with pleasure only.
Me: This is so true for me. The magic happens with joyful writing not forced word count.
9. HM: Discard program when you feel like it, but go back the next day.
Me: Good advice.
10. HM: Forget the books you want to write. Think only of the book you are writing.
Me: Slightly disagree. If you have creative inspiration for something, take notes and keep a file folder for later on.
11. HM: Write first and always. Painting, music, friends, cinema, come later.
Me: I don't completely agree with this. Sometimes you need these things to replenish the creative well and then the writing flows better. Trying to force words when they're not happening is like lying in bed trying to force yourself to sleep when you have insomnia. Sometimes it's just not happening. That's okay. Do something else for a bit.
I would love to hear from all of you! What do you think about Henry Miller's advice? Is it important to stay a bit flexible?
Have any of you worked on establishing new brain pathways for your writing?
Let's chat!
xoxoxo
Nina/Penny
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