Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Celebrities (And Authors) Behaving Badly



Even though it is in extremely poor taste, I like to visit certain websites that gossip about celebrities. Hey! I also visit websites about birding, dachshunds, and gardening tips, so I'm not all bad! Anyhoo, here is my take on the latest wackadoodle celebrity behavior....

1.) Mariah Carey wins Diva Of The Year. She insisted that her own music be playing while her babies were born. hee heeeeeee...... I know some celebrities have big egos, but that's gotta be right up there. I'm wondering what music selection she will choose for diaper changing.

2.) Jesse James. What can I say? After betraying his wife in spectacular fashion, he decides to write a book detailing the intimate moments of their lives, so he can cash in on her pain and suffering. What a stand-up guy. I love his excuse....Millions of guys cheat on their wives! What a winner. Well, Sandra may have made a whopper of a mistake when she married that schmo, but her adorable newly adopted son is a sweet pea. Go Team Sandra!

3.) Oh, Terminator, how could you? Arnie cheated on his wife with "the help," fathered a child, and kept it secret for ten years. I'm sort of amazed he could keep that a secret. But it's really not surprising. Just disappointing.

4.) When asked about his parenting style, Brad Pitt joked "I beat my kids regularly. That seems to do the trick." Ba dum bum. Okay, not really funny, but good try, Brad. By the way, he is looking REALLY badly lately (see photo below). What happened to Brad Cutie Pie?



5.) As many of you know, I frequent the Amazon Romance Message Boards. The big, breaking news recently is that Amazon finally decided to crack down on the spamming authors and force them to promote only in a designated "Meet The Author" area. These authors are now howling like wounded animals, accusing Amazon of infringing on their right (or is that "write"?) to free speech (hee hee!), convinced that they will never sell another book if they aren't free to pimp on the Ami boards. I have never seen such a bunch of whiners in my freakin' life.

I speak about promotion for writers, and honestly, the behavior I see at those boards could make up a "What Not To Do" reality television show. (Hey, what a cool idea!!!!! We could have hours of footage of folks working on their WIPs, sucking down diet Coke, and.....never mind. Bad idea.) The authors are fighting with readers, each other, complaining, whining, and offering up way too much personal information. Whatever happened to behaving in a "professional" manner? Whey do they feel entitled to free advertising at Amazon?

I published my first book with a very small publisher and had to do all the promotion for it myself (just like those indie authors). And guess what? I worked my ass off, contacting book bloggers, scheduling guest blog posts, blog tours, interviews, reviews, running contests and giveaways, creating a website, purchasing advertising spots, promoting myself (in a good way!) on Facebook and Goodreads, attending meetings, conferences and workshops. My book wasn't even available initially at Amazon, but nevertheless, I still managed to make a bestseller list at Fictionwise during my release month. Why? Because I worked my ass off, that's why! I researched appropriate bloggers who liked my genre and didn't force my book down anyone's throat. At gunpoint. With insults hurled at them.

One word comes to mind when I venture over there: unsavory. And I like Britney! So that's saying something.

On the reading front....I am heartily enjoying Jane Slayre. There is something extremely satisfying about Jane kicking some zombie ass instead of getting crapped on all the time. I love that!

Hope Yinz All Have A Happy Day!
Penelope

11 comments:

nikkibrandyberry said...

Ive never been to the Amazon boards but I get that same thing over on Goodreads. It's amazing that someone would expect me to read their book after I see them throw a tantrum when someone else didn't like it. And I've gotten a review request from the same person at least 5 times and it was also "suggested" to me on Goodreads LOL.

BTW the covers to your books over on the side are super cute! :)

Penelope said...

Hi nikkibrandyberry! When I start getting spammed by authors I have friended at Goodreads, I unfriend them, then send them an email letting them know their behavior is not okay. It really pisses me off when someone "friends" me at GR for the sole intention of spamming me! Jay-sus!

Thanks for the compliments on my covers...I love them!

Isabel Roman said...

I am continually amazed at the bad behavior on the internet! Seems anonymity (or the semblance of such) makes it OK. It's almost as if spamming online is allowed but not in person--you'd never consider mailing out tons of letters/flyers with requests to buy or review your book. Well, maybe some writers would I don’t know.

As for celebrities…why are the paid so much? So the rest of us can feel better about the horrible things we do?

Penelope said...

Hi Isabel! I know, it's depressing, isn't it? Actually, the authors behaving badly at Amazon are NOT anonymous...which makes it even worse.

And I agree about celebrity paychecks...seriously, the Kardashian girls? They actually have no known talents, but get paid a butt-load for appearances. WTH!!!!!

Isabel Roman said...

As an aside, and because I can't send email from my account while at work (filter blocks it) who are your favorite cozy mystery authors? We're updating and expanding our list at the library this week.

Penelope said...

My favorite mystery writers at the moment are Annette Blair (Vintage Magic series), Goldy Culinary series by Diane Mott Davidson, I liked the Hannah Reed bee mystery I read this week, and I also read a cute culinary mystery by Melinda Wells. Thanks for asking!

Julia Rachel Barrett said...

I love to read your rants! So to the point! I stay off the Amazon boards, even as a reader. Wouldn't touch that stuff with a ten-foot pole. The nasty tone appalls me! What ever happened to courtesy? Of course that is the advantage of anonymity, you don't need to be polite.
Oh sigh, Brad...but he's always said he isn't afraid to get ugly.
I cannot imagine diva-hood...why? Just be a successful person, not a diva.
Yup, that's our former governator. Sorry. So many of these guys do it. I'll assume it was one of the nannies - until stated otherwise. It's always the nanny.

KB/KT Grant said...

You'd think Mariah would get sick of hearing her songs. ugh.

As for those cheating men... off with their peens!

Penelope said...

Hi Julia! I love it when the divas say "I'm not a diva!" But actually, I think Mariah Carey has admitted she is a diva. I'll bet she wears a tiara to bed!

Penelope said...

Haa haaaa, yes Kate....I agree. I sure am sick of hearing them.

The cheater I most despise right now is Jesse James. He has no concept of how despicable he is. Not enough to betray his wife, now he has to drag her even deeper through the mud with his book and hurtful comments. Peen removal would be an appropriate punishment!

Juju at Tales of Whimsy.com said...

O Mariah! Say it ain't so?